Tuesday, July 15, 2008

Strange Personal Issue: Tables


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You know how it is; there are those few weird things that you have strange, unpopular opinions about when wedding planning.  One of mine is that I really dislike round tables.

Now in an effort to avoid them, I have done my research on pricing and I think I am in a good place.  But my parents are still concerned for guest comfort.  During Mama's visit, we visited Magnolia Hall with Lindsey, and all three tried different seating options around the rectangle tables.  I got the feeling it might not be as smooth as I had hoped.  So the question is, should I:

  • Get over it and have round tables
  • Ask nicely for all rectangular tables
  • Mix it up to make everyone happy

And also, can I get a little feedback on rectangular tables?  Are there set-ups that work better than others?  Any thoughts would be great!!

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Monday, July 14, 2008

Rehearsal Dinner Brainstorming

image from Maggiano's

Hey y'all!  I hope that everyone had a fantastic weekend!

Mama left on Friday night, and then Ry and I attended a wedding Saturday.  Congrats Chris and Chris!  Sunday was a lazy rainy day, but I did get some homework accomplished.  All in all a good one.

I will break down Mama's visit into a few posts, but truth be told, we didn't accomplish a vast amount as far as decision making goes.  Instead, we talked a LOT, met with my brand new official wedding coordinator (I love you Linds), and brainstormed.

And one of the exciting things we brainstormed about was: Rehearsal Dinner locations!

So I know that this is going to be largely up to Ryan's parents, but they asked us to give suggestions.  So we talked about different options, and then visited two of them to get a feel.

First Mama, Lindsey and I ate at Atkin's Park in Virginia Highlands and requested to see their banquet space.  Although I very much adored the space, it was sadly up a flight of stairs (no elevator) and the only bathrooms were downstairs.  Additionally it would hold a maximum of forty, and we were at that moment unsure that we would all fit.  So it was a no for us.

On Friday night before Mama left, Ryan and I accompanied her to dinner at Maggiano's.  Ryan had never been before, so I was eager to see what he thought.  We had a great time, but we were sitting right in the bar area at the busiest time on a Friday night, so our experience wasn't perfect.  I thought Ryan would say it was a no.

Out to dinner on Saturday night (after the wedding we had to unwind apparently) the group convinced Ryan that Maggiano's was a perfect location, and that we should go for it.  (The other two couples we were with knew they were going to be invited, so that might have helped the cause!)

So we haven't yet pitched the suggestion to Ryan's parents, but I thought I would ask: Has anyone had their rehearsal dinner (or any other private event) at Maggiano's?  Or do you have another good location suggestion for us?

Friday, July 11, 2008

Random Love Friday: Round Two

Happy Friday!  Here is round two of random things I am loving this week.  (Some are a little older, but I am been loving them for a few weeks, alright?)  Enjoy!

This would never fly at my own wedding, but how can you not love the crystals hanging from this pretty chivari chair?

image via The Brides Cafe

During the week this amazing bag appeared in my google reader.  I will owe a lifetime of servitude to whomever wants to make me a bag like this of my very own!  How awesome is this artwork??


These invitations from Peonies and Polaroids make me want to start over completely with my wedding vision, and go hot pink and white... or just bow down to her amazing DIY masterpiece.

gorgeous invitations from peonies and polaroids

And this last picture is just incredible.  Again, nothing to do with my own wedding planning, but certainly beautiful inspiration.  The atmosphere, to me, is perfect.  Maybe I should reconsider hot pink... (Just kidding Ryan!)


Hope you enjoyed!  What random things are you loving this week?

Thursday, July 10, 2008

Photography: Part Three

Wedding Photography from Blue World Studios.  In my opinion, no other words necessary.  (Insert intelligent expression of massive amounts of happiness here.)


Anyone else get besides themselves with excitement when looking at other people's wedding pictures?  Or am I the only freak?

All images copyright 2008, Blue World Studios, Inc.

Photography: Part Two

Since finding and booking Blue World Studios, I have been blown away time and time again by their photos.  Each time I see new pictures appear on their blog, I can't believe that one of these days I will have photos that look like this!

Now that you have heard all about them, I imagine you would like some proof.  So here are some of my favorite engagement photos.


Check back later for my favorite wedding photos!

All images copyright 2008, Blue World Studios, Inc.

Photography: Part One

Image copyright 2008, Blue World Studios, Inc.

Like many other brides, after securing the man, the date, and the location, all I cared about was finding a good photographer.  Unfortunately, everyone I had heard about and liked the style of in Atlanta was WAY out of our price range.  So one night I decided it was time to stop daydreaming and do some research.

I am sure there is a better way to do this, but I will be honest about my painstaking process.  I found the Knot Georgia Bio, and went to the Photography page.  I then researched every photographer on the list.

When I went to each photographers page, I had a mission.  First, I looked to find pricing.  Before I even looked at the pictures.  Some people might find this crazy, but I didn't want to get all excited about the pictures before discovering that packages started at $10,000.  (I had already done that.)  If pricing wasn't listed or it started over $4,000, I closed the page and moved on to the next.

If the price was right, I started looking through the albums.  I was looking for a somewhat photojournalistic style, that still spoke of the couple, their personalities, and their family and friends.  I found that much photojournalistic photography was too artistic for my taste, and looked more like a magazine than a cherished wedding album.  So I was basically looking for something artistic that also spoke to me and tugged on my heart.

Strange to say, but of the many, many websites I looked at (I estimate overall at least thirty) I only found one photographer who fit into my requirements.  I opened the page, checked the price, and moved on to the galleries.  And I just sat there with my mouth open.  My heart was definitely touched by what I saw.

I quickly moved on to the next step of my research: Actually checking to see what knotties had to say about the photographer.  When I saw that every review was good, I walked over to Ryan.  I held my laptop open.  "Look, I found our wedding photographer."

Ryan looked at the images briefly.  (I was, after all, interrupting World of Warcraft.)  "It's perfect.  It's beautiful and the focus is on the people."

I spent the next few days blogstalking Blue World Studios before I found the courage to contact my very first wedding vendor crush.  They were open on our date!  (In fact, they said I was way ahead of the January wedding curve.  I might have overwhelmed them with my excitement.)  So I went to meet with Janet and EJ.

Can I tell you how nervous and shy I was, like it was my first date?  (Janet and EJ, if you ever read this, please forgive my intense awkwardness.)  But I didn't know what the appropriate protocol was for meeting with a wedding vendor when what I really wanted to say was, OhmygoshIloveeverythingyoudopleasebemyphotographerandfriend!

I knew my father would definitely not approve of such behavior.  So I held it in, but I hope my intense amount of smiling helped.  I loved them, eventually Ryan and my family met them, and everyone was happy.  The day my dad emailed to say he had booked them, I did a huge happy dance around my apartment.  I think that moment was better than the moment I found "The Dress."

So that's enough out of me!  Go check out Blue World Studios!  Not only are they incredible photographers, but they have bigger hearts than most people I have come into contact with.  And not just for humans, but for animals too.  And their love of others and understanding of human emotion is apparent in their work and it sounds like in their lives.  (My counseling background is showing, I apologize.)  I can't wait to work with Janet and EJ and have some emotionally perfect wedding artwork of my very own.

Did anyone else have to muster their courage to contact a wedding vendor crush?  Do other people even use that phrase?

Wednesday, July 9, 2008

Mama's in Atlanta!

image via amazon.com

Today I am beside myself with excitement, and not even thinking (too much) about my midterm tomorrow night!  My mom is flying in from Orlando and braving MARTA (Atlanta's train system) to spend the next few days relaxing, catching up, and oh- wedding planning.  I think my new book will come in handy!  (PS: If you haven't looked at it yet-this book is a fantastic and beautiful resource which thus far I would highly recommend!)

I think we are going to talk invitations, flowers, and decor.  We are trying to keep appointments and "to dos" to a minimum so that we can just chat in person, enjoy each other's company, and be open minded about all of the little details!  I will certainly update next week with what we accomplished.  Until then, enjoy some pre-scheduled eye candy!